Instead, he wants these three things from you…
How much time do you spend attempting to be the kind of woman you believe men desire?
It’s a LOT if you’re like most women. You spend so much time trying to make yourself seem sexy and attractive.
All the while presenting oneself as amusing, fascinating, worldly, and not in the least desperate. You’ve spent all this time demonstrating to him how wonderful you’d be for him… What a fantastic future he’d have if he selected you to be his partner…
And it’s ineffective. It’s never going to work. WHY? Why do you put forth so much effort… And the person in your life, if he acknowledges you at all, simply takes you for granted. Isn’t it probably because he’s immature? He doesn’t notice a nice thing until it’s gone. Or maybe…
It’s because you’ve been doing all the work for him.
He Won’t Value Your Relationship If He Doesn’t Work For It
Men appreciate things that require effort to get.
If you hand a guy a college diploma, he will not appreciate it as much as if he had to put in years of study and work to get it.
If you give a guy the ideal girlfriend, he will not appreciate her as much as if he had to pursue her for weeks just to convince her to go out with him. This is why playing hard to get is effective.
But, as you’ve surely seen…
There is a major issue with playing hard to get. Once he has you, that method is no longer effective.
When males decide they’ve won you, something strange occurs. It’s almost as though they’re thinking, “Game over.” Their thoughts had already turned to the next obstacle. What the heck is going on?!
And how can you prevent it from destroying your relationship?
It’s Not Just You—ALL Women Experience This
(That’s Why They Ask For Help)
Many women lose up on finding love. They never got too near to a guy for fear of frightening him away. Other ladies, though, take a different approach. They get assistance. One of the individuals they consult is relationship counselor James Bauer.
He observed that many of his customers were talking about males who were blowing hot and cold. Everything would be going great until…
Something would change overnight.
A man who had been kind, loving, and interested would suddenly turn cold. He wouldn’t have time for her anymore. He refused to welcome me with a grin. He’d cease looking me in the eyes. His kisses were harsh. James explored in order to assist his clients.
And what he learned explained everything. He understood why these men were fleeing. He was aware of what they need… and what they were not receiving.
It didn’t come down to anything wrong with these women.
Rather, it all came down to something he called “The Hero Instinct.”
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